Perfect Diamond Engagement Rings Online
November 21, 2008 by Han Dingchao
Filed under Business, Love, Marriage
Yesterday my friend Peter asked me where he could buy diamond engagement ring online, he said he will be engaged quite soon. I am a big fan of internet, so of course I know where to buy. I told him he can visit WhiteFlash.com, which comprises a collection of engagement rings meticulously selected in the spirit of commitment and beauty. From Tiffany Style Solitaires and 3-Stone Diamond Rings to Diamond Settings and Whiteflash Designer Engagement Rings, their styles reflect their philosophy that engagement rings are meant to be “cherished and adored from generation to generation as timeless pieces of art.” What’s more, they are professional.
In my mind, everything should be professional, I mean, when you choose anything to buy, you should see whether it is professional or not, if not, forget it, if yes, consider it. This is my formula, and you can’t go wrong if you use this formula.
So if you happen to about to be engaged like my friend, and you are searching for engagement rings, you can apply my formula, your honey will be happy. Anyway, hope Peter have a wonderful engagement experience.
Boo! I love you. Will you marry me?
Looking for a perfect time to surprise your loved one with an engagement ring? Why not try Halloween? It will probably be the one day least suspected by your significant other to hold such a romantic surprise. But, it can be a very fun way to present that diamond in a way that has your loved one seeing sparkles as well as spiders.
The Perfect Setting
A Halloween party is a great way to mask a proposal as there are plenty of witnesses and lots of scary jewelry and costumes. She will never be able to guess where you hid that diamond ring and there are plenty of ways to do it with some fun games that can involve a blindfold that gets removed at just the right time to reveal the engagement ring. You can even slip the ring on the stem of a ghoulish drink you hand her at just the right time.
Celebrating the Engagement
Halloween parties make great engagement parties too. If you both are in on the secret, you can dress up as a dead bride and groom and then announce the engagement to your guests. It will add a very special highlight to the Halloween party and make for a memorable occasion. You can even add some cute signs to your costumes saying: “Struck down by love” or “Shot by an arrow through my heart.” While humorous, they can give your guests a hint that this is not an ordinary Halloween party.
Pass Out Some Ghoulish Wedding Invitations
If you’ve planned this far ahead, you can even use the party to save some money on stamps. Just hand out the ghoulish wedding invitations and let them know when the special date will happen. Remember to keep one and take lots of pictures during the party. These types of mementos can be really great to look at years down the line. Imagine looking at these photos with your kid when you are a happily married old, gray, couple. It will be a delight and a treasure for the family for years to come.
Love Is a Dreamland, Marriage Is a Plight
July 22, 2008 by Han Dingchao
Filed under Love, Marriage
I always believe marriage is not a perfect way of living for we human. Why are we going to marry while we can enjoy the happiness of love? To produce children? And your children will produce their children when they grow up? Is this the circle we are in? And why?
Forgive me to say ” Love is a dreamland, marriage is a plight “.
I am not going to suggest you staying away from marriage, it’s all your business, I have no right to intervene, I just want to express my opinion, and you have no right to intervene what I say, right? Ok, it’s quite fair.
We human should find out a better way of living, what will it be? I’ve no idea. What do you say?
You Told Me You Would End Your Life
December 6, 2007 by Han Dingchao
Filed under Marriage
One of my readers sent me an email yesterday, he said he was abandoned by his girlfriend, he said he had lost all the hope of life and he would end his life. I am shocked by him, I feel I should help him immediately. Here is a response I gave him, I’d like to share it with you here, and hope it will useful for you, my dear readers:
Dear Tim,
I am very sorry to hear that your girlfriend abandoned you, I am so sorry. You told me you will end your life, you know, I am shocked by you, really. You sent me this email, it indicated that you believe me. Now I feel I have obligation to help you, and I am very glad to help you.
I haven’t fell in love with anyone till now, Maybe I don’t know the feeling about love. But in my mind, I still have some attitude toward love. I think the premise of love is not losing life. That is, if I were you, I won’t die for love. Love is very important I know this, but I think life is more important, if you lose your life, you will have nothing, without day, without night, without pain, without love, everything will be empty for you, everything will be meaningless. What a awful thing! I always believe that pain is a must component of our lives, when we are painful, we can feel we are still alive at least, So I don’t think pain is a bad thing.
I can imagine how painful you are now, true, losing love is a great tragedy in our lives. I have seen many people lose love. But the point is you should overcome it, if you overcome it successfully, you will be a strong man. That’s good for you.
I don’t have much interest on marriage. So my view is losing a girlfriend is not worth you losing your life. You can get another girlfriend, but you can’t get a second life if you lose it. Am I right, my friend? You know, life is everything, nothing can live over life. There is a saying “girls are like clothes”, I am not agree with such saying, but you can regard it as a suggestion, so now we can say “losing a girlfriend is just like losing a coat”. I am sorry, I don’t mean to hurt any girls, forgive me. What I do mean is don’t sink in the pain of losing love, you should stand and continue your life. Think about it, your parents wish you to be a great man, you have so many dreams in your heart, you should let them come true. Life won’t be dark all the time, when the dark is gone, the day will come. Believe this, my friend.
OK, I think you have known what you should do now, my friend, I do hope you have a happy life, despite you are not happy right now, never mind, you will learn to enjoy your life. Life is so beautiful that we all love it. Tomorrow will be a nice day.
Sincerely,
Dingchao







