Don’t merely pay ear service…carefully listen to what people are saying to you. Make
a conscious effort to hear and understand every word they speak. Resist the urge to
interrupt, and wait till the speaker has finished completely before responding. Don’t
miss key parts of the message because you’re thinking of something else, or prematurely
forming your response. And [...]

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Last night when I chatted with my sister from Vietnam, she told me she watched a video showing African children who were affected by HIV were treated unfairly, she said she was very angry about that and wanted to do something to help them. Yeah, I am very angry too! This is why I write [...]

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Do you know why you can’t achieve success, although you have a lot of perfect ideas? Let me tell you, you can’t succeed because of the fear of failure in you deep heart. You ever had wonderful ideas and dreams, but when you think about that you may fail, so you didn’t take action. You [...]

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Believe me, nobody have the rights to judge you except yourself, what I want to say is you should treat others’ judge as rubbish. I mean, you won’t become better because of others’ commend, and you won’t become worse because of others’ bad words on you. So just go the way what you wish to [...]

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I have my own mind. When you talk with me, I am not against you, but please don’t think that I agree with you. Sometimes I don’t want to argue with you, because everything has its reason of existence. You are right, and I am right too, there is no right or wrong here.
In my [...]

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“Don’t put all your eggs in one basket!” I don’t know how you understand it, but for me, I know how important it is for me. If I put all my eggs in the company I work in, I have no ability to say “I quit” now! The lucky thing is I didn’t, and I [...]

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My future belongs to me, I should put it in anyone’s hands. When I worked for my boss, I feel that I put my future in her hands. Now I realize how dangerous it is! How can I give my future to others?! This is the most awful thing that I can imagine. Nobody can [...]

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I am always wondering “can a man live relying on his shortcomings?”, I want to live with my shortcomings, I want to prove myself to this world!
I don’t think I will fail, I always believe that! Many of friend ask me “why don’t use your advantage to make a better life? “, I say nothing [...]

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I don’t cater to anyone! I won’t say you are very very good if you are really not good, I don’t say I like it if I don’t like it. I only follow my heart. I don’t care whoever you are, how high you live, if you are wrong, I will say you are wrong.
I [...]

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I still remember one saying “live for nothing, die for something”. I feel sad every time I think about it. It gives me a feeling of death. But at the meantime, I feel it is beautiful feeling. I’ve learned much from it. It lets me know what I am living for.
Most of us don’t know [...]

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Because I am always disappointed by the law of our society, I have to create my own law. I mean, the law you comply is not for me, it is for all of you, but not me. I have my own law. I don’t admit your law.
What my looks like? Let me try to explain. [...]

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I always say I am a free man, I can’t be limited by anyone. So I have enough courage to say “NO!” to anybody. I don’t care who you are and what you do, if I don’t agree with you, I will say NO, if I don’t want to do what you ask me to [...]

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We human always like to say others fight. This is our human nature, and this is why boxing is so popular from ancient time. No matter how dangerous it, we still like to watch.
Boxing has become a big industry, more and guys begin to dive into it, some of them want to see who win [...]

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— Dingchao, is there something that is absolutely true? I mean, true forever.
— I don’t think there is such thing. You know, you think it is true, maybe others will believe it is false. There is no absolute thing in the world except death.
— So what can I learn from this truth?
— What I want [...]

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There are many things that we are doing, but we are too shy too talk about it. Like sex. We all know it is not a bad thing, we do it, but why we feel shameful talking about it? In my opinion, we needn’t feel shameful talking such things. Because they are clean and healthy, [...]

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