Don’t merely pay ear service…carefully listen to what people are saying to you. Make
a conscious effort to hear and understand every word they speak. Resist the urge to
interrupt, and wait till the speaker has finished completely before responding. Don’t
miss key parts of the message because you’re thinking of something else, or prematurely
forming your response. And [...]
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No Discrimination, Please!
Last night when I chatted with my sister from Vietnam, she told me she watched a video showing African children who were affected by HIV were treated unfairly, she said she was very angry about that and wanted to do something to help them. Yeah, I am very angry too! This is why I write [...]
What Stop Our Steps To Success?
Do you know why you can’t achieve success, although you have a lot of perfect ideas? Let me tell you, you can’t succeed because of the fear of failure in you deep heart. You ever had wonderful ideas and dreams, but when you think about that you may fail, so you didn’t take action. You [...]
Nobody Can Judge You Except Yourself
Believe me, nobody have the rights to judge you except yourself, what I want to say is you should treat others’ judge as rubbish. I mean, you won’t become better because of others’ commend, and you won’t become worse because of others’ bad words on you. So just go the way what you wish to [...]
I Am Not Against You, But It Doesn’t Mean I Agree With You
I have my own mind. When you talk with me, I am not against you, but please don’t think that I agree with you. Sometimes I don’t want to argue with you, because everything has its reason of existence. You are right, and I am right too, there is no right or wrong here.
In my [...]
I Didn’t Put All My Eggs In The Company
“Don’t put all your eggs in one basket!” I don’t know how you understand it, but for me, I know how important it is for me. If I put all my eggs in the company I work in, I have no ability to say “I quit” now! The lucky thing is I didn’t, and I [...]
I Will Never Put My Future In Anyone’s Hands
My future belongs to me, I should put it in anyone’s hands. When I worked for my boss, I feel that I put my future in her hands. Now I realize how dangerous it is! How can I give my future to others?! This is the most awful thing that I can imagine. Nobody can [...]
Live With Shortcomings
I am always wondering “can a man live relying on his shortcomings?”, I want to live with my shortcomings, I want to prove myself to this world!
I don’t think I will fail, I always believe that! Many of friend ask me “why don’t use your advantage to make a better life? “, I say nothing [...]
No Need To Cater To Anyone
I don’t cater to anyone! I won’t say you are very very good if you are really not good, I don’t say I like it if I don’t like it. I only follow my heart. I don’t care whoever you are, how high you live, if you are wrong, I will say you are wrong.
I [...]
Live For Nothing, Die For Something
I still remember one saying “live for nothing, die for something”. I feel sad every time I think about it. It gives me a feeling of death. But at the meantime, I feel it is beautiful feeling. I’ve learned much from it. It lets me know what I am living for.
Most of us don’t know [...]
I Have My Own Law
Because I am always disappointed by the law of our society, I have to create my own law. I mean, the law you comply is not for me, it is for all of you, but not me. I have my own law. I don’t admit your law.
What my looks like? Let me try to explain. [...]
I Have Enough Courage To Say “NO” to Anybody
I always say I am a free man, I can’t be limited by anyone. So I have enough courage to say “NO!” to anybody. I don’t care who you are and what you do, if I don’t agree with you, I will say NO, if I don’t want to do what you ask me to [...]
Boxing
We human always like to say others fight. This is our human nature, and this is why boxing is so popular from ancient time. No matter how dangerous it, we still like to watch.
Boxing has become a big industry, more and guys begin to dive into it, some of them want to see who win [...]
True? False?
— Dingchao, is there something that is absolutely true? I mean, true forever.
— I don’t think there is such thing. You know, you think it is true, maybe others will believe it is false. There is no absolute thing in the world except death.
— So what can I learn from this truth?
— What I want [...]
We Should Change Our Mind
There are many things that we are doing, but we are too shy too talk about it. Like sex. We all know it is not a bad thing, we do it, but why we feel shameful talking about it? In my opinion, we needn’t feel shameful talking such things. Because they are clean and healthy, [...]
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I graduated from a university in July, 2007. Then I run this blog in September. Now I am working in a pharmaceutical company. But I hate this job, I will quit it in the near future. I would like to run my blog and do some online business.
This is my dream, I hope it will come true soon. And I believe I will succeed. My own saying is 'Common people are always common, uncommon people will be uncommon'. I am quite sure I am an uncommon person. I will be uncommon one day.
Who Am I?

I am not a guy who has no minds of his own.
I am not a guy who lives in real world without dreams.
I am not a simple guy as my friends often say.
I graduated from a university in July, 2007. But I think I hadn't learned any useful knowledge in classroom.
I am a guy who loves travel, he will travel all over the world.
I am a guy who can say to himself "cowboy, you are really something!" when he is old.
I am a guy who has a lot of dreams but have no ability to let all of them come true, but he is still trying his best to let most of them come true.
I am a guy who doesn't like to follow others' steps, he is living following his deep heart.
I am a guy whose biggest wish is helping those people who need help.
I am a guy who is trying his best to live a happy life without regret.
I am a guy whose life deems to be end in 2057 when he is 75 years old.
Oh, by the way, my name is Han Dingchao. Just call me Dingchao, Okay?
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