Some of my friends often complain to my “Dingchao, I have fell into big trouble!”. Some of them say “I have worked hard for many years, but I still don't have enough money to buy a house”, some say “I am abandoned by my girlfriend!”, some say “I can't bear my job anymore!”, etc.
I totally understand them. But complaint can't help us. We should try to find a solution for every one of these problems. You can apply mortgages from mortgage lenders if you don't have enough money to buy a house, you can get another girlfriend if you are abandoned by your previous one, you can quit your job if you can't bear it anymore, just like what I did.
So you see? Every problem has a solution, don't complain it anymore, just pick up your courage and continue your life.