Most of us living with our passion, totally passion, so we lack of controlling. This is why some of us need addiction treatment. Maybe some of us are addicted to drinking, some are addicted to drugs. The only reason to explain this is we don't have enough ability to control ourselves.
I ever advocated to live with passion, in fact, I don't mean we should live without control, instead, sometimes we must learn to control ourselves not to do something. Only if we can do this, we will be successful men.