Most of us dedicate to pursue a stable life, what I want to say is, the stablest life is ordinary and poor life. See? Life needs passion and creation, stable life is too stable to have passion or creation, so it must be a ordinary and poor life.
Some of my friends ask me what kind of life I want to live, my answer is I won't live a ordinary, in other words, I will live an unstable life.
Don't feel strange about this.